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I'm guessing that your cat is declawed, since urinating on soft surfaces is a common expression of stress in declawed cats. Do you shut him out of your bedroom at night, as you mentioned he meows at the door all night? Could you give him access to the bedroom at night? You could try natural stress relief such as Feliway, which contains synthetic cat pheromones. It comes in a spray or plug-in diffuser and is available at pet supply stores, vets, and online. Some people report that flower essences are helpful. These can be rubbed on the cat's fur and around the ears or added to the cat's water. (search "flower essences" or go to www.catfaeries.com or www.rainbowcrystal.com) Give him plenty of love and attention to ease his jealousy. The vet can prescribe anti-anxiety medication if the natural remedies don't help. Good luck!